Compilation: Twenty Outstanding History Books

I have a master's degree in history. My favorite focus is Victorian British history, but I also have studied some American history. When I began to compile this list, I was overwhelmed. I apparently read a lot of non-fiction history books. Thus, I limited this list to outstanding titles, primarily read in the past five years, but a half dozen from further back in my blog. Some of my favorite historical authors include Daniel James Brown, Candice Millard, and Erik Larson. Here are twenty that stand above the rest (and I'm sure I'm leaving out a few because I couldn't take the time to skim all the history reads on this blog):

1. Forty Autumns by Nina Willner - Berlin Wall story
2. The Lost Airman by Seth Meyerowitz - Nazi occupied France
3. A Hobbit, a Wardrobe, and a Great War by Joseph Loconte - WWI, Lewis & Tolkien
4. The Wager by David Grann - a British shipwreck
5. The Radium Girls by Kate Moore - US history
6. One Summer by Bill Bryson - America 1927
7. The Greater Journey by David McCullough - Americans in Paris
8. Facing the Mountain by Daniel James Brown - US in WWII
9. The River of Doubt by Candice Millard - Theodore Roosevelt
10. The Library Book by Susan Orlean - LA library fire of 1986
11. Destiny of the Republic by Candice Millard - US president
12. The Wicked Boy by Kate Summerscale - Victorian London
13. The Splendid and the Vile by Erik Larson - Winston Churchill in the Blitz
14. The Five by Hallie Rubenhold - Jack the Ripper victims
15. The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown - 1936 Olympic rowing team
16. Dead Wake by Erik Larson - the sinking of the Lusitania
17. Under a Flaming Sky by Daniel James Brown - a Minnesota fire of 1894
18. In the Garden of Beasts by Erik Larson - WWII Berlin
19. Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand - WWII
20. Thunderstruck by Erik Larson - advancement of wireless communication

Book Review: The Heirloomist

What a perfect book for a week when I couldn't face anything with depth or difficulty. The Heirloomist: 100 Treasures and the Stories They Tell is full of minor vignettes about items with major sentimental value. The stories were delightful. From a fork gifted for a first date to a Magna-Doodle with a captured message from a deceased father, these stories pull at your heartstrings. I loved the treasured notes from the past and the baby bench almost sold before friends recognized its significant value.

The 81st treasure, especially, stood out to me. It showed a list torn from Life's Little Instruction Book. The list was one the owner lived by and it stood out to his children and friends. I noticed the first item on the list: "Compliment 3 people every day." I read this during a tough week. But, I received a gift from someone following this rule and I can tell you how meaningful it was. I was leaving a medical facility when a woman called out, "Your hair is beautiful." It took me by such surprise, I doubted she was talking to me, but she looked right at me. I said, "Thank you." Then I turned around and added, "That made my day! You can't imagine how much!" 

Senior Night and Belated Anniversary Trip

Our oldest son blessed us with a visit for the weekend of Sean's Senior Night football game. Bryce arrived at midnight on Thursday. Despite my early-to-bed, early-to-rise nature, I'm usually the one who drives to pick him up. I enjoy the time talking with him in the car. He worked remotely on Friday (from the quiet privacy of my book desk in our guest room). A bunch of buddies from his football days invited him to tailgate with them prior to the game.

John and I made our way to the end of the stadium where the parents of seniors lined up. Is it bad to say I'm glad this is my final senior night? Ha!

Bryce sat with us during the game and regaled us with tales of his honeymoon travels (some flight delays and missed reservations - especially one for a cool pool experience near the runway of a NY airport). They had a wonderful time in the Maldives.

After the game, we waited for Sean to exit the field and snagged photos of him with Bryce and him with his girlfriend Claire.

On Saturday, Sean and Bryce drove up to Purdue to view the campus. This was far better than the campus tour I took with Bryce during his senior year. Bryce was able to show Sean all around the engineering buildings and campus hot spots. Sean hopes to attend Purdue for a degree in aeronautical engineering.

Tuesday before Senior Night, John and I finally got away for a brief trip to belatedly celebrate our August anniversary. We hiked in Turkey Run State Park the first day. John wanted to hike Trail #2 (one marked "moderate"), but I convinced him to take Trail #3 because everything on-line says it is the most scenic of the trails. Trail #3 was very rugged, just as the trail marker indicated. Not to mention, it sprinkled with rain twice during our trek, making the rocks slick. Again, following on-line advice, we went counterclockwise. This meant we had to go down (backwards, which felt very perilous) the ladders on the trail. Yikes! Although, it was fun, I ached for 3 days following our hike. (This selfie was taken at the end, when the sun finally dried things up.)

The next day, we spent walking around the Covered Bridge Festival in Rockville, Indiana. We visited some antique shops (with no intent to buy anything, as our goal is to downsize in the near future). Then, we returned to our favorite baked potato station. I also bought an order of corn fritters. It wasn't an extravagant anniversary celebration, by any means, but it was better than our 2020 celebration plans. Ha! 

Book Review: Heroine

Several months ago, I compiled a list of Indiana authors I'd like to meet. When September promised a trip to Ohio, I made a list for Ohio authors, as well. I initially sought authors I was familiar with: Margaret Peterson Haddix, Celeste Ng, Sharon Draper (author of Out of My Mind, a MG novel recently made into a Disney movie), and Thrity Umrigar. But, I looked up a few who lived nearer to my Ohio destination to see if I might want to read a book and seek the author. This is how I stumbled upon Mindy McGinnis' book, Heroine. I sought it despite knowing it might hit too close to home.

Mickey Catalan is an athlete with an injured leg (hmm, familiar). Her doctor prescribes an opioid (hmm, familiar). Thus begins a descent into addiction (hmm, familiar). The story is heart-wrenching but full of truth. McGinnis paints the real deal: the deceptions, the thievery, the justifications, the tolerance build-up, and the dependence. Mickey comes to believe the drug is her only answer. She doesn't see herself as a junkie until the evidence is too plain to ignore.

I appreciated the trigger warning at the outset, very important. What a great idea to open each chapter with an addiction-related term. Mickey's struggle tears at the reader's heart. It is a slippery slope. I'm not sure why some go down it and others are unaffected. I took an opioid after some of my surgeries and never struggled. Unfortunately, my son (like Mickey) was not so lucky.

Sadly, Mindy McGinnis was heading off for a book tour during the dates I was in Ohio. She kindly offered to answer my questions via email anyway. I hope to highlight her author interview in a post early next year. Heroine is an important book for teens to read to increase awareness of the allure of addictive drugs. We need to be more careful in prescribing drugs that ease pain, but in the end bring no end of pain when the afflicted individual leans into addiction. I cannot say whether my son would have spiraled into drug addiction anyway, but I'm sure for many, it is the initial prescription for an athletic injury that leads to this path of bondage and despair. 

Mid-month Mention: Homelessness Resources in Indy

In July, our son's addiction rendered him homeless. As if the fears associated with his drug use were not intense enough, we added anxious concern for his overnight parking. He often selected places in very bad parts of Indianapolis. The drugs might do their damage, but criminals could harm him, too. His homelessness inspired my interest in this month's mid-month mention topic.

Indianapolis is now fighting this battle with a new organization called Safe Park Indy. As of October 1st, they offer 10 safe parking spots in a NE church parking lot for those who submit an application and fulfill the program requirements (these requirements rule out my son). Accepted applicants not only gain a safe location to park in the evenings for two months, but they have access to phone charging, restroom facilities and social services opportunities. This program seems destined to offer a leg up to some who have been crippled by homelessness. Here is a WTHR news story about this Safe Park Indy program.

Another non-profit organization helping meet needs in Indianapolis is Indy Community Pantry. They have refrigerators at 3 Indianapolis locations, open 24 hours a day, stocked with food and resources for both homeless and needy individuals. Headed up by a concerned citizen, DeAndrea Rayner, these pantries offer opportunities to meet the needs of the less fortunate in Indianapolis. You can volunteer to help stock the fridges, you can donate items, or you can offer financial support. If you're in need, you can access food and hygiene items. Here is a WTHR news story about the Indy Community Pantry. 

The final organization provides an intersection of two topics I've bumped against: homelessness and hospice care. My mother was fortunate. She had my father to house and care for her both prior to and in her hospice days. Many are not so blessed. Morning Light, Inc. meets these unique homelessness needs. They provide free housing and round the clock care to those who have a terminal illness while homeless. Their 12-bedroom facility just happens to include my oldest son's name: The Abbie Hunt Bryce Home. They have already served over 900 Hoosiers. Morning Light requires community funding through grants and donations. They also utilize volunteers to help meet the needs of homeless hospice patients. I noticed a Facebook post by Madison Wood and wanted to get the word out about this compassionate non-profit organization. If you have an interest in the widespread homelessness problem, check out these resources and get involved to be part of the solution.

Book Review: Secrets at the Last House Before the Sea

I found Secrets at the Last House Before the Sea by Liz Eeles on the Hoopla audio app. It is the first book in the Heaven's Cove series. I enjoyed listening to this title and might seek the second in the series, A Letter to the Last House Before the Sea. The book takes place on the Devon coast. It is full of British charm and small town coziness.

Here is the summary from the Amazon page:

"Back in the tiny seaside village of Heaven’s Cove after the death of her mother, all Rosie Merchant wants is to hide her tears, rent out her childhood home, and get back to her ‘real’ life, away from the gossiping villagers and wild Devon weather she escaped from years ago.

She’s surprised to find a smiling man in hiking boots – local farmer Liam – waiting on the stone doorstep. His kind offer to help clear crumbling, isolated Driftwood House is hard to refuse, and despite Rosie’s determination not to let anyone get close, soon they’re walking and laughing together along the clifftops. As clouds scud across the endless sky and green waves crash against the shore, Rosie is reminded that nowhere is more beautiful than home.

Then, up in the attic of Driftwood House, Rosie stumbles across a photo which exposes the heart-stopping truth about how her mother came to live at Driftwood House years ago… and Liam only seems concerned about the implications for his own nearby farm. Did he know this painful secret all along, and should she run from Heaven’s Cove for good? Or will facing up to her devastating family history mean Rosie can finally put down roots in this beautiful place?"

Though characters exhibit a casual attitude toward sex, this was mostly a clean read. There are 7 books in the Heaven's Cove series. I will have to keep an eye out for the ones I can access easily. Who knows? I might get swept in and purchase the rest, as well.

Gaining a Daughter

Ever since May 2023, when our oldest son Bryce proposed to his girlfriend Elizabeth, we have been fixated on the final weekend in September 2024. The flurry of preparation was minimal for us (primarily, finding suitable mother-of-the-groom attire and losing weight before the event), but Elizabeth took on all the details with great care and calculation. She is a highly driven and organized person. I marvel at her skill for planning this elaborate event.

My anxiety level was intense. I worried about so many details. Would our prodigal be able to participate appropriately? (Due to recent events connected with his addiction, he did not attend.) Would I lose enough weight to be comfortable with the time-sealed photos of the event? (I lost 19 pounds between January and the wedding.) Could I find a dress comfortable enough for my dress-loathing personality? (Thanks to a kind Von Maur associate named Diedre, I found my very comfortable and flattering dress and knew it was "the dress.") Could I endure the dreaded mother-son dance, when all eyes would be on me and my lack of dancing skill would be evident? (My hairdresser suggested a strategy. I spent the whole time in riveted conversation with Bryce. It worked and eased my nerves.)

After years of cheap haircuts at Great Clips, I was determined to find a hairdresser I could afford and appreciate. Thankfully, I found that at a men's hair salon, of all places. I have been getting outstanding senior women's cuts from Amelia at Manscapes Salon. She gave me a sense of confidence I lacked and helped me settle on a style I was comfortable with and capable of maintaining. I tried to time the cut, but may have been off by a week (it looked best one week prior to the wedding, sob).

Formal events scare me. While I'm not a country bumpkin (despite living in a rural enclave), I'm not comfortable in high society. The wedding took place at the Hotel Crescent Court in Dallas, Texas. It was absolutely stunning and gorgeous. Elaborate glass sculptures hung from the ceiling. Large canvas art adorned the walls. I felt a bit like an imposter, an ugly duckling among swans, but was surprised by how much I enjoyed the proceedings.

We flew into Dallas on Thursday evening and, apart from our experience at a sketchy McDonalds nearby (sought for a close, quick, inexpensive meal), enjoyed our Home 2 Suites stay and breakfast. Friday morning, we took an Uber to the tux shop with luggage in tow (another ugly duckling among swans experience as we looked a bit homeless amid the grandeur of Culwell & Son). Next, we headed for Hotel Crescent Court. John waited for our room's availability and Sean and I attended groomsmen/bridesmaid luncheons. (My meal at Sixty Vines was so delicious that we ate there for lunch again on Saturday with my father.)

Now that my mother is deceased, my father is free to travel for weddings. He safely drove all the way from Florida to Texas for my nephew's wedding in July, so he felt confident in making the trek again for Bryce's wedding. This time around, however, he left on Wednesday 9/25, just a day ahead of the expected landfall for Hurricane Helene. I was nervous on his behalf, but he managed to get ahead of the storm. (Although, he did arrive later than I'd hoped and missed the initial moments of the rehearsal where we discussed his entrance, given his current use of a power wheelchair.)

After the rehearsal, we paused for photos (snapped by their outstanding professional photographer, Sami Kathryn Photography):

The rehearsal dinner took place at The Henry, a restaurant with a great patio view of the Dallas skyline. It was, perhaps, the best meal I've eaten in a very long time. The meal started with an appetizer of house made pretzel balls with fondue. This was followed by a Caesar salad. For the entree, I ordered the braised short rib with bourbon caramel, roasted mushroom, fourme d'ambert, and smashed potatoes. The meat was so tender it melted in my mouth. Just when I thought the meal couldn't get any better, they brought out the dessert: a chocolate fudge torte with peanut butter crunch, milk chocolate mousse, and candied peanut caramel. Knowing I needed to fit into my dress, I intended to only eat half, yet somehow bite after bite cleared the plate clean. If you're ever in Dallas, this dessert deserves a special trip!

Saturday's wedding was beautiful, memorable, and fun. Here's a family photo taken by the photographer:

Here are a few snapped with my camera:

The wedding was held in the courtyard with an expected crowd of around 100-125 people. I wanted Bryce and Elizabeth to be able to invite their Purdue and work friends. It was an adult only affair and there are 19 cousins/spouses on my side, several with small children. Thus, the only cousins invited were on my husband's side (4). Family members who were able to attend really had a great time! They enjoyed a delicious meal, wedding cake, and dancing. John and I sat watching most of the festivities and wondered how our youngest knew words to all the dance songs. He had a great time dancing in the ballroom with his brother and new sister-in-law. I enjoyed snatches of conversation with Bryce's two close high school friends, Cameron and Dylan.

At 10:30 p.m., Bryce and Elizabeth strode down a tunnel of guests for a fake send-off (my photo). 

Then everyone but us returned to the ballroom for an afterparty that ran until midnight. John and I were happily in bed in contented sleep by 11. And now, I have a daughter-in-law. Yippee!

(This beautiful bridal portrait was taken by the professional photographer, obviously)

Bryce sent this photo from their honeymoon in the Maldives:

Thanks to the storms in our area after Hurricane Helene, we were somewhat concerned we'd return home to find no power to open our garage door. We thanked God when we found our home safe and sound. The following morning, however, we looked out the window to this shocking sight:

You can see in the first photo how dreadful it could have been if it fell in another direction and hit the power line by the roof. The second photo barely shows the extensive destruction of the fence to John's garden. We are grateful to the Lord for a blessed weekend, safe flights, protection over our home in our absence, and for the joy of gaining a daughter-in-law.

Book Review: The Summer of Yes

One of my favorite books of last year was The Happy Life of Isadora Bentley by Courtney Walsh. I recommended it to my new book club, not even realizing it was published by a Christian publisher. That book hit all the boxes of need in my life. It resonated like a megaphone. During my second read-through with that book club, I noted all the things Isadora attempted to improve her happiness quotient in her life. While I haven't pursued those lessons, I relished the opportunity to consider what stands in the way of feelings of happiness and fulfillment.

I jumped on the hold list as soon as I saw my library had a new Courtney Walsh book. The Summer of Yes is as uplifting and life-affirming as her previous book. Once again, it inspired contemplation and introspection. I questioned, "where do I say 'no' out of fear or discomfort?" The ability to determine your "yes" or "no" with integrity is a tricky thing. I have said "yes" in previous circumstances, based on a belief that it is something others want me to do. It may have even seemed God wanted me to do it, yet when life led in another direction, others then questioned my integrity and my belief in following God's leading.

This is a tangent, but one worth exploring. Where do we get the right to determine where God is leading another person and how can we be certain that God might not be leading them out of an opportunity, just as much as He led them into an opportunity? This is very personal. My parents were Salvation Army officers for many years. Then one day, my dad said God was calling him to leave the ministry. I cannot express how many people cast judgement on them for this action. Even the wording in the Army's officer covenant holds marital implications, as if God's calling is a calling for life. In my opinion, that's not how God works. Biblically speaking, His call has led His followers into and out of opportunities, even into prison experiences. The important thing is to filter these decisions through a lens of God's desires for us. This is not a straightforward task. We can think we know God's desires (and often think we know God's desires for another person), but sometimes that is personally motivated rather than spiritually motivated.

Back to the book and why you should say "yes" to reading it. A random, life-threatening accident lands Kelsey Worthington (assistant editor for a publishing company) in a hospital room with Georgina Tate (eminent businesswoman). Kelsey recognizes Georgina and her curious mind kicks in. She asks Georgina if she has any regrets in her long life of breaking the glass ceiling. Kelsey is processing her life, in light of her near-death, and wondering if what she is pursuing will be worthwhile in the end. This is a valid question everyone should explore.

Kelsey determines to alter her life by saying "yes" to things she has always turned down. She begins by taking time off work (something she never did) and spending time at the zoo with her best friend (again, she admits she was a crappy friend). But the more she ponders Georgina's life, the more she is convinced that the intersection of their lives was with purpose. She believes that purpose is to pursue the "Summer of Yes." Kelsey hijacks Georgina's life and leads her on a road trip that will alter both of their lives and will cause them to re-evaluate their decisions.

Georgina's handsome son adds a layer of romance. The characters are interesting and believable. Walsh nails the voice again. Kelsey and Georgina both are very particular and opposite characters. I enjoyed the road trip aspect, the thoughts to contemplate and personalize, and the positive resolution. Various lines made me laugh out loud. This is a book about redemption and forgiveness, my favorite themes to explore. I recommend this book if you catch yourself turning down opportunities because they require you to step out of your comfort zone or approach things you feel unqualified to attempt. After the acknowledgements, there's a section with discussion questions, making this a perfect option for a book club.

Book Review: Catching Foxes - Highly Recommend

Several months back, I mentioned my desire to send my son and future daughter-in-law a pre-marital discussion guide. The one I wanted to send, written by Gary Thomas, was called Nine Essential Conversations Before You Say I Do. At the time, they were not seeking pre-marital counseling, but my husband urged me not to send the book. He argued they were both very busy and would not have the time to read the book. Moreover, I think he didn't want me inserting myself into the process. Fair!

Thanks to certain changes in their lives, they sought pre-marital counseling from a mentor couple in their church, the Eastside Community Church. I asked what book they were using and then went online to see if I could access it through my library. The book they worked through is called Catching Foxes: A Gospel-Guided Journey to Marriage by John Henderson. Now, I'm wondering if God intended the book as much for me as it was for their journey. I listened to this book during my treadmill time and completed it the day prior to our (my and John's) 34th wedding anniversary.

Amid a chaotic and stressful week with our prodigal, I requested prayer from my Facebook friends. Things did not go well. They played out the opposite of how I believed God willed. Mistakes were made, and I was angry that my opinions were ignored. I allowed resentment and bitterness to take hold of my heart and soul. It doesn't surprise me that God used this book, Catching Foxes, to draw me back and reveal the pride, arrogance, and sin within my own heart.

I was right in the sections on marital roles/responsibilities and resolving conflict. How timely! God used this book to open my eyes to my lack of trust in Christ. I went in thinking I knew exactly what should happen. When that didn't happen (and I felt part of this was due to the behavior/decisions of my husband), I justified my anger because if things had gone my way, it would have fallen out in God's will. This was believing somehow that my will was God's will. This was placing my trust (and then disappointment and discouragement) in my husband's ability to do what I felt he should in the situation. I had my trust centered in the wrong place. I asserted my will for my own desires, not in submission to what God allowed to play out.

Of course, I sometimes need a 2x4 upside the head. So, in my devotions, I came upon a passage in Matthew 12:25 - "a household divided against itself will not stand." In my personal Bible reading, I came to Psalm 112: 7 - "He shall not be afraid of evil tidings, his heart is fixed, trusting in the Lord." Then, not even knowing the dynamics of my situation, my good friend, Anne, wrote to me:

"Our devotions lately have become so meaningful as we have been reminded of God's faithfulness, His work in us, and His weaving of our life story for His glory. I am not so good at the trusting part of this, but so often want to do things my way, and then pray for God to affirm the choices/decisions that ultimately I am making instead of relying on Him to meet all of my needs! (Ha! What an eye opener it is when I realize that I'm basically saying, 'I'll take the wheel on this one!')"

The Gary Thomas book I wanted to send is very good and practical. Catching Foxes is very gospel-focused. Indeed, the Nine Conversations book helps a couple think about how to prepare their relationship for marriage. Catching Foxes goes deeper and helps a couple recognize attitudes and positions in Christ necessary for the arduous task of staying married. Getting married is simple! Can be fun! Staying married depends upon a reliance on Christ and a dedication to live for His kingdom. It demands a self-sacrificing focus that fixes its gaze on Christ instead of self or spouse. I highly recommend this pre-marital workbook, not only for young couples starting out, but for us older folk, who just might need a brush-up course on surrendering one's will and one's marriage to the Lord.