Book Review: Choosing to SEE

While Steven Curtis Chapman is a popular Christian artist, I only knew two songs well: one was "I Will Be Here," and another was his 2007 hit, "Cinderella." Despite only having sons, I could appreciate the wisdom of cherishing moments of youth before our children slip away into grown-up lives. This beautiful song became even more poignant in 2008, when his youngest daughter was, indeed, gone. The Chapman's youngest adopted daughter, Maria (age 5), died in a tragic accident at their home when her beloved brother, Will Franklin (age 17), hit her with a car. I cannot imagine the grief! The intense grief of a parent losing a child in an untimely manner. The even more painful grief of the son, knowing he played a part in this devastating loss. Our entire nation watched with empathy as they navigated this unfair and undesired journey with grace and faith.

Choosing to SEE is a memoir written by Steven's wife, Mary Beth, together with the outstanding biographer Ellen Vaughn (author of the Elisabeth Elliot books I read a few months back). She takes us step-by-step through the days leading up to Maria's adoption and then eventual departure to be with Jesus. Since I've been walking a difficult path, it was encouraging to listen to the words of faith communicated in this book. It was a fantastic reminder that even when life brings pain that feels like it might rip out our hearts, God is at work and has all things under His control. He only allows what is good and we must allow Him to bring our brokenness the glory due His holy name. While it will still be painful, clinging to hope is the only thing that helps me endure.