Book Review: The Christmas Pact

I listened to The Christmas Pact in audio form on Hoopla in mid-November. This is the 1st in the 3 book A Mountain Springs Christmas series by Meg Easton. It is a sweet tale of two individuals facing great difficulty appreciating Christmas. Jack Meadows has never liked Christmas. When his sister asks him to make this Christmas special for his nephew, Aiden, Jack hires one of his employees, Noelle, to help with the task. Noelle, who normally loves Christmas, is facing the difficulty of celebrating without her deceased Gran-Gran (a name I struggled with - why couldn't it just have been Gran? Then again, perhaps it was more a difficulty with the narrator's reading style). If you are seeking a wholesome, quick Christmas tale, this book fills that need.

Compilation: A Baker's Dozen Health and Nutrition Books

As we approach the Christmas gift season, I wanted to provide a compilation of outstanding daily devotionals. It is a great time to give the gift of a devotional that covers every day of the year. Alas, I can only recommend two, despite owning and working through many more. It came down to Paul David Tripp's New Morning Mercies and Bob Hostetler's The Shakespeare Devotional. Since 2 books hardly made a compilation, I shifted gears and chose to highlight health and nutrition books.

One would think I'm a fit and thin individual, given the number of nutrition and health books I read. One would be sadly mistaken. I love to read about this subject. Implementing what I read is something of a struggle. Again, though, it is that time of year when gifting reflects best intentions for resolutions. Or perhaps, like me, you just enjoy reading books about getting healthy (sometimes more than actually getting healthy). I cannot say these are the best books on the subject, only that they are ones I have reviewed (although I didn't take much time compiling this list and didn't go back further than a few years except for ones I remembered well enough to call forth again). I have marked the most memorable and meaningful books with an asterisk (*).

1. Clean Gut by Alejandro Junger MD
2. Salt, Sugar, Fat by Michael Moss *
3. It Starts With Food by Dallas and Melissa Hartwig
4. The Patient's Playbook by Leslie D. Michelson
5. Brain Maker by David Perlmutter MD *
6. The Aging Brain by Timothy Jennings MD
7. The Clean 20 by Ian K. Smith MD *
8. The End of Alzheimer's by Dale E. Bredesen MD *
9. The Lose Your Belly Diet by Travis Stork MD
10. The Circadian Code by Satchin Panda PhD *
11. The Fast Diet by Dr. Michael Mosley and Mimi Spencer
12. The Grain Brain Whole Life Plan by David Perlmutter MD
13. Intermittent Fasting for Women Over Sixty by Lauren Grant

Happy Thanksgiving, today, and here's to happy, healthy eating in 2025! May I keep off the 19 pounds I lost in 2024, in preparation for my son's wedding. What are your favorite or most impactful health and nutrition books? Do you struggle with implementing what you read when you read in this subject?

Book Review: Waiting Isn't a Waste - Highly Recommend

How thrilling to find another book by Mark Vroegop. Last year, I highly recommended his book on lament, Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy. Once again, I felt drawn to his subject; this time, it was because we are waiting for God to break the chains of addiction that bind our son. In Waiting Isn't a Waste: The Surprising Comfort of Trusting God in the Uncertainties of Life, Vroegop unpacks something we'd all rather avoid. There's treasure in learning how to wait well. 

I started this book the morning after a full day of waiting. Knowing our son's wedding would keep us up late, we rejected the early morning direct flight home and took one departing at 8 p.m. After spending the day sitting around in the hotel lobby, they delayed our departure another hour. We headed to the airport anyway and waited again. As we sat near our gate, watching the flight before ours load, we noticed a disturbance on the floor by the doorway. A young girl of about 7 or 8 was pitching a fit. As far as we could tell, her mother was attempting to put her on the plane by herself (a required parental visit?). She was having none of it. After much cajoling and crying, she boarded the plane, holding the hand of another young passenger. Those waiting for that flight and for our flight all held a collective breath. She held up the process for at least a half hour. We were weary and eager to return home, so when we saw the girl break through the entry way yet again, demanding her mother, it stretched our patience. We had visions of our flight cancelled, requiring a night at the airport. The girl eventually returned home with her mother and our flight departed at 9:45 (we didn't arrive home until 1:20 a.m.). It was as if God primed the pump for my reception of this book.

In our pressurized world, waiting feels inconvenient and annoying. Normal sympathies waned as we saw our expectations thwarted by this poor child's plight. Waiting Isn't a Waste is very well-structured. Vroegop encourages the reader with the key message, "Don't waste your waiting!" He breaks the "how" of waiting down into 6 characteristics: honestly: waiting is hard; frequently: waiting is common; thoughtfully: waiting is biblical; patiently: waiting is slow; intentionally: waiting is commanded; and collectively: waiting is relational.

Thanks to reading this book, I feel encouraged to embrace the gaps as opportunities to put my hope in God's timing and rescue. It's hard to live with only enough manna for the day at hand. But, as Vroegop points out, "God designed waiting in the world and in redemption [Christ was 3 days in the tomb] so that he's central, not you or me." Our desire for control often leads to anger, anxiety, or apathy when faced with times of waiting. Vroegop recommends, "Intentionally rehearse what [is] true about God." He suggests making a map of God's faithfulness, actively practicing waiting, and shifting your focus from what you don't know about the future to what you do know about God.

As Vroegop observes, biblical waiting is "active and intentional," "purposeful and productive," and trusting and hopeful. How I need more patience when I wait! I loved the definition given for patience, the Greek word "makrothumia." It is "a state of emotional calm in the face of provocation or misfortune and without complaint or irritation." Perhaps I wasted my waiting on the day after Bryce's wedding, but I don't want to waste the possibly lengthy wait for our prodigal to return to God's desired path for his life. When our future seems uncertain, may I rest in the certainty of God's sovereign hand orchestrating and carrying us through every moment.

Book Review: A Letter to the Last House Before the Sea

Just about a week prior to my oldest son's September wedding, I needed an audio book to fit the remaining treadmill time I had before we departed for Dallas. Having enjoyed Liz Eeles' first book in the Heaven's Cove series, Secrets at the Last House Before the Sea, I selected the second book, A Letter to the Last House Before the Sea. I was grateful for the same narrator, Francesca Waite. I had hoped to write up my review before we left, but with all the stresses of getting ready, that didn't happen. Hopefully, I can call forth the details enough.

Lettie Starcross makes her way to Heaven's Cove with an old key and a letter given to her by her departed great-aunt Iris. Iris Starcross lived in Driftwood House in her youth, but left Heaven's Cove on uneasy terms long ago. Lettie is determined to discover the secret behind the key and the love letter. She faces her own demons as she flees job loss and family burdens in her life in London to seek refuge for a time in Heaven's Cove. She finds a deep sense of community and a refuge of peace.

Once again, the story swept me in. I copied one quote that stood out to me: "People may disappear from your life, but they always leave echoes." Too true! I felt drawn to this seaside community. Heaven's Cove may not be a real place in Devonshire, England, but I'd love to visit a similar little seaside village and pretend I'm walking the streets Lettie traversed. The locale's description made me eager to visit. The characters came to life in my imagination. I would happily seek the third book in this Heaven's Cove series. 

Book Review: The Secret Keepers of Old Depot Grocery

Since following Sara Brunsvold on Facebook, I've been gleaning book recommendations. Amanda Cox is an author Sara (or one of her followers) recommended, so I sought The Secret Keepers of Old Depot Grocery. This was a Book of the Year in the 2022 Christy awards. In it, Cox explores mother-daughter relationships, loss, the power of secrets, and the important freedom found in the truth. My treadmill time slipped away, absorbed into the life and environs of this small town Tennessee grocery store.

Recently widowed, Sarah Ashby seeks refuge in her hometown and wants nothing more than to work alongside her mother and grandmother in the Old Depot Grocery Store. Sadly, her mother, Rosemary, is determined to sell the store. She doesn't want her daughter following in her footsteps. Conflicts between grandmother, daughter, and granddaughter bring to light the secrets of the past and the long-falling ripples cast by those secrets. Can they redeem the brokenness of the past? Are they doomed to bear the burden of guilt and isolation that secrets bring?

I will happily look into further books by Amanda Cox. The characters came to life from off the page and felt like friends. The secrets unburdened brought a release and redemption that I love in stories. This is a well-told tale of second chances, love, and loss. It reveals God's redemptive purpose in our pain, and boy, do I need that message these days! 

Mid-month Mention: Preparing for Advent

 

I'm not a strict Advent observer. Most years, I merely purchased the $1-1.50 chocolate Advent calendars available at Aldi. My boys loved eating their tiny dose of chocolate first thing in the morning, as we counted down the days until Christmas. I know there are families who make a far bigger production of it (reading a book of the Bible as they count down days, opening a new religious picture book each day for the first 2 dozen days of December, reading specific Advent devotionals). This year, I want to invest time each day in prayer, to count down the days until we celebrate Christ's birth.

With only one left at home (and a senior in high school, at that), I don't foresee this being a family activity. Still, I wanted to take time in mid-November to offer some suggestions of things I found online to aid in my approach to this coming Advent season.

1) Free Advent Templates - I discovered a website called Praying in Color. You can find a variety of Advent calendar templates as you contemplate ways to celebrate anticipatory days in December. I already pray daily for Facebook friends as a continuance of my 2023 Facebook Prayer Project. Thus, I may select an Advent-related word to focus on. I've also printed one of the blank block ones off for Sean and Claire to see if they want to come up with a calendar of activities.

2) Specific Daily Prayers - Perhaps I'll choose a specific prayer for each of the 24 preliminary days. The following 5 blogs offer prayers I might use:

• One Prayer a Day blog by Bob Hostetler - This is a blog I have followed sporadically for a long time now. Bob is a great guy, an author friend, and a man of prayer. His daily prayer blog is well worth following even outside of the advent season. (My favorite of his many books is The Bard and the Bible, recently re-released as The Shakespeare Devotional - in case you might be searching for an outstanding daily devotional as we approach a new year. Great Christmas gift idea!) 
• Time With Our Creator blog - Although this blog doesn't seem current (last post in 2023), I appreciated the most recent post with a prayer for casting all our anxieties on the Lord. How thrilling to see a Salvation Army song referenced in the post (Lt. Col. E. H. Joy's "All Your Anxiety"): "Is there a heart o'erbound by sorrow? Is there a life weighed down by care? Come to the cross, each burden bearing; All your anxiety - leave it there. All your anxiety, all your care, Bring to the mercy seat, leave it there, Never a burden He cannot bear, Never a friend like Jesus!" - visit this Hymnary page for the music and lyrics to this beautiful song. What a blessed reminder that I can leave my many current burdens at the feet of our Savior!
• Prayer-coach blog by Kevin Shorter - With a variety of prayer tips and helps, this blog offers several prayer lists that I might use (I may send this list of things to pray for addicted loved ones to my son).
• Prayer and Possibilities blog by Kathryn Shirey - Kathryn provides another idea: writing daily letters to God
• The Daily Prayer blog - This blog, offering a thought and a prayer, has been available as long as my blog (both started in 2008). Daily is a misnomer, as it seems the prayers are over several days, but I think they are beneficial and might be useful in this endeavor.

Book Review: Funny Story

Funny Story, by Emily Henry, was not a clean read! No, indeed it veered into graphic descriptions of activities I would prefer to be left to my imagination with a slow fade. Alas, I listened in audio form. I could not quickly skim through and get beyond, but had to barrel through the sensual scenes (I'd say "intimate," but they were casual and to me, intimacy is hard-won through marital commitment). However, again, these scenes popped up after fully invested, and besides, the story was so delightful otherwise. I can understand why it was an instant New York Times bestseller (and Julia Whelan's narration was outstanding, as always).

Daphne and Peter always introduce their impending marriage by explaining the funny story of their meeting and finding love. Only now, Peter has realized he's actually in love with his best friend, Petra. Daphne had moved her entire existence to Peter's Michigan town to be with him and now she is alone, without genuine friends, and seeking a replacement for the one good thing about her life, her beloved job as a children's librarian. Also, she must find a new place to live on the spur of a tragic and traumatic moment.

After Daphne moves in with Miles, Petra's similarly rejected fiancé, she receives a wedding invitation to Peter and Petra's wedding. Why not prove she is not as devastated and lonely as Peter believes? Why not rub in his face that she could move on quickly? Thus, she spins a new funny story. She will attend with her new boyfriend, Miles. Can they keep up the pretense? Is it really a pretense? What does Daphne truly need and will she find it in this sweet Michigan town?

This was entrancing! There were several laugh-out-loud lines! Moreover, I loved the characters. Daphne struggles with inevitable trust issues from a father who was never there for her. Certainly being dumped by your fiancé intensifies trust issues all the more! But Miles is so likeable. He is sweet, endearing, and the kind of guy that everyone falls for. Then again, we're all reeling from the emotional baggage of life.

I have my own funny story... about this book. I didn't begin listening as soon as I received it from the library. It came due before I finished. No worries. I'd seen it available on Hoopla. Alas, only on the neighboring town's catalog. Thus, I had to wait until the audio version came available again (3 weeks). At the checkout, the woman next to me was checking out the hard-cover copy of... Funny Story. (I had also noticed a woman on a recent plane trip reading this same book.) Funny! Delightful! Well-earned reputation.

📒 Content caution: sex, drug use, language

Book Review: The Air Raid Book Club

I thank my library and Hoopla for providing me with endless options of audio books to listen to while I walk on my treadmill. The Air Raid Book Club by Annie Lyons offered another dip into WWII and the lives of British and German characters. This book adheres to current societal agendas that view God's dictates for what is good for man as too limiting and restrictive. Yet, I could enjoy this tale for the redeeming qualities of love and self-sacrifice. Indeed, I admire the main character, Gertie, for her willingness to take in a German Jewish child and I affirm the life-changing rewards we receive when we place the needs of another above our own. So, despite unwholesome content (always comes when fully invested in the book, i.e., later), I still enjoyed the story and found something to gain from this tale.

Life isn't the same for bookstore owner Gertie Bingham ever since her husband Harry died. Her enthusiasm for what brought her joy has dampened. Then, war breaks out and she answers the call to provide a home for a German Jewish child. Hedy is a typical sensitive teenage girl. Gertie must rise to the role of parent, an unfamiliar role that brings untold joy. The Blitz threatens their lives, but solidifies their love for one another. This was a fresh story of the way books and community soften the harsh realities of life and provide an anchor in a storm. I may still give Annie Lyons' other popular title, The Brilliant Life of Eudora Honeysett, a go.

📒 Content Caution

Book Review: Be Not Far From Me

Be Not Far from Me is the second Mindy McGinnis book I've read. I was as swept up in the story this time as I was in her previous book. She has an impressive skill for sucking a reader in and making them want further details to know how things will turn out for the characters. This is not a Christian YA book, yet the title comes from a passage in Psalm 22. It was fitting and is my prayer in my life as well. The inside cover blurb says: "Award-winning author Mindy McGinnis delivers a compelling and harrowing story about survival and one girl's attempt to endure the impossible." This book, about being up against great odds, was riveting!

Ashley Hawkins is partying in the Smokies with her friends when she comes upon her boyfriend in a compromising position with another girl. Drunk and delirious with rage, she flees the scene and ends up falling into a ravine and injuring her foot. Now she is miles from help (as if she were a person who would accept the help of others, ha), and wandering alone in the threatening woods. She must endure countless challenges (at one point, she wakes to find an opossum chewing on her diseased foot - yikes) in order to survive. Her best hope, she believes, is to channel the wisdom she learned from her mentor, Davey. But Davey went into the woods and never came out. This isn't a comforting thought in her precarious situation.

I am impressed by this author's ability to secure and hold the reader fast. Her writing makes you forget that there is a puppet-master manipulating the strings of the dance before you. You become so deeply involved that you forget there is a writer at all (a mark of a good one). While I winced at some scenes, I never looked away. Ashley's voice of narration is unique. She is quite a character and her strength, while it sometimes gets her in trouble, carries her through tremendous obstacles. This was an entertaining and educational read. Still, I hope I never find myself in the woods, reaching back in my mind to pull forth the wisdom Ashley exhibits.