Thursday, August 29, 2024

Compilation: 14 Autobiography/Biography Reads


I love to read about others' lives and eavesdrop on what they experience. My forays into autobiography and biography have been varied. While I enjoy focusing on authors, I've also delved into royalty, musicians, evangelists, and even an odd-ball outlier. Here are a few titles if you are looking for interesting autobiographies or biographies:

  1. Andy Miller: A Legend and a Legacy by Henry Gariepy - biography of a Salvation Army evangelist
  2. Amazing Grace in the Life of William Wilberforce by John Piper - biography of a politician/philanthropist
  3. Barbara Park by Dennis Abrams - children's biography of the author of the Junie B. Jones books
  4. Looking Back: A Book of Memories by Lois Lowry - autobiography by the author of The Giver
  5. Victoria: Portrait of a Queen by Catherine Reef - biography of the queen of my favorite era to study
  6. Prairie Fires by Caroline Fraser - biography of children's author Laura Ingalls Wilder
  7. The Stranger in the Woods by Michael Finkel - biography of an odd hermit
  8. About Alice by Calvin Trillin - biography of the author's wife
  9. The Good Neighbor by Maxwell King - biography of Fred Rogers
  10. A Curious Man by Neal Thompson - biography of Robert Ripley
  11. The Library Book by Susan Orlean - not strictly biography, but contains a biography of Ray Bradbury
  12. Lives of the Writers by Kathleen Krull - children's biographies of famous writers
  13. Lives of the Musicians by Kathleen Krull - children's biographies of famous musicians
  14. Spare by Prince Harry - autobiography of the lime-lighted prince

Monday, August 26, 2024

Book Review: A Thousand Times Yes

A few years ago, I noticed this title, A Thousand Times Yes: Two Doctors Who Answered God's Call, on my friend's Good Reads shelf. She gave it 5 stars, so I looked into it and purchased the book. My friend is training to be a doctor and a missionary, so I understand the appeal this book had for her. I began reading this last year, during my January trip with my sister to visit my parents. However, I abandoned the book when my dad encouraged me to read a book from his apartment called Heaven Rules. This year's trip to FL (for my mother's celebration of life), I brought it along again and completed it.

Wana Ann Fort shares the story of her life and her calling to be a missionary doctor, something she felt was far out of reach. I was interested in following this story of her missionary exploits in Africa because two of my friends were on a sister trip to re-visit Africa, where they had lived temporarily with their missionary parents when they were children. Combining viewing their stunning photos while reading the Forts' adventures and faith bolstered my spiritual fortitude when I needed spiritual fortitude more than you can imagine! Here is an example of one amazing shot taken by my friends while on their reunion trip to Africa:

(photo credit: Beth Petrie)

I once desired a missionary calling. I did a brief stint on a summer mission team in the Philippines. When I returned, I had a new view of my privilege and my heritage, so often taken for granted. But God led in a different path. I admire those who give their lives in service to Christ and His kingdom. They will reap rewards in heaven. My path holds just as much purpose and challenge as a missionary life, but I'm still aware of the comforts I look upon with expectation. May God use my faith for His kingdom, just as he did the faith of the Fort family.

Thursday, August 22, 2024

Book Review: The Year That Changed Us

When I noticed The Year That Changed Us on the Hoopla suggestions, I recognized the publisher, Boldwood Books (same publisher for the Wildflower Lock books). After taking a gamble, I almost abandoned this book several times when it veered into territory I didn't enjoy. It is not a squeaky clean read and the story pace was challenging, but I persisted. It took quite a while to ferret out the cataclysmic event that separated best friends Emma and Lise. Yet, I felt invested enough to continue listening.

Annalise has returned to London, to her childhood home at Honeybee Court, and hopes to reconnect with her onetime best friend, Emma. The two girls grew up in very different homes, and Lise adored Emma's family. She hopes to mend the rift that grew during their time together in Paris. This is the driving story problem: once they were friends, something tragic happened, now they are not. Much of the book is backstory leading to the climactic moment, the big reveal. It was satisfying, but also somewhat predictable. Still, I think this book would tug heart strings as you watch this relationship flourish, implode, and reconvene. The promise of secrets revealed and crisis explained keeps the reader turning the pages (or, in my case, listening during exercise and dish-washing moments).

📒 Content Caution: smatterings of language, drug use, and sex

Monday, August 19, 2024

Book Review: Remarkably Bright Creatures - Highly Recommend

Some authors hit a debut novel out of the park on the first swing! This was a gem of a book! I observed the many recommendations from other book lovers and now must rave about it myself. With entrancing characters and multiple story problems presented, Remarkably Bright Creatures sweeps the reader into this magical world near Puget Sound. I honestly was sad when the book was drawing to a close because I wanted to stay in the story longer. Indeed, I had fifteen more minutes to my drive time, so I reversed and listened to the final 5 tracks on the CD all over again. It is a remarkable tale that leaves you in a happy place.

Not that the story shies away from significant loss. No, each character is dealing with overwhelming sorrow and challenges. But as they come into contact with one another, they are changed. The initial narrator is an octopus named Marcellus, who is detailing the final days of his captivity in the Sowell Bay Aquarium. Tova Sullivan is the petite Scandinavian widow, in her 70s, who tidies the aquarium every night. She is not only grieving the loss of her husband to cancer but also the mysterious loss of her 18-year-old son Erik three decades ago. The interactions between Marcellus and Tova are magical. When Tova falls and injures her leg, the aquarium director hires Cameron to fill the position temporarily. Cameron is in Sowell Bay seeking information about the parents he never knew. His past abandonments have left him stuck.

Initially, I thought the title applied to the octopus. After all, they are incredibly intelligent. I had read of an escaping octopus in Sy Montgomery's The Soul of an Octopus (did Van Pelt read Montgomery's book?). Toward the end of this tale, Marcellus attributes this title to humans, and it feels quite apt. For all the bumbling and stumbling we do with one another, at times we can be "remarkably bright creatures."

What a delightful read! It well deserves its recognition as an instant New York Times bestseller! This is one I would happily return to in the future. If you don't believe you can get behind an animal narrator, please allow yourself the willful suspension of disbelief. You will not be sorry! The endorsements are long and varied, but these were three of my favorites that articulate far better than I can:

"Shelby Van Pelt has done the impossible. She's created a perfect story with imperfect characters, that is so heartwarming, so mysterious, and so completely absorbing, you won't be able to put it down because when you're not reading this book, you'll be hugging it." - Jamie Ford, author of Songs of Willow Frost and The Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet

"Remarkably Bright Creatures is a beautiful examination of how loneliness can be transformed, cracked open, with the slightest touch from another living thing. Shelby Van Pelt makes good on this wild conceit, somehow making me love a misanthropic octopus, but her writing is so finely tuned that it's a natural element of a larger story about family, about loss, and the electricity of something found." - Kevin Wilson, author of Nothing to See Here

"Infused with heartfelt humor, Van Pelt's elegant portrait of a widowed woman who finds understanding and connection with a clever octopus is refreshingly, if surprisingly, relatable. Despite the unorthodox relationship at its core, the debut novel offers a wholly original meditation on grief and the bonds that keep us afloat." - Elle

Thursday, August 15, 2024

Mid-month Mention: Hope for my Hurting Heart


In the month of July, my heart was gutted. The love of a parent for a child is a bond like no other. If biological, you have not chosen that child; that child was chosen for you by God. The Lord gives an intensity of love upon birth that cannot be rivaled. Yet, that child, chosen by God for you, can also bring an intensity of pain, betrayal, and heartbreak.

I was searching up something entirely different, when I happened upon the scripture writing videos of The Homespun Wife (Sherry M. Hefner) on You Tube. I thought perhaps I might get back into scripture writing. I had used that practice several years ago, but had revamped my morning quiet time without incorporating the writing of scripture. You Tube highlights other videos along the side bar and I noticed one by The Homespun Wife called The Truth About My Son. This video resonated with me. It is also terrifying to me. Despite five years in this, we are at the beginning of our walk with an addict. I feel overwhelmed when I recognize that this journey will probably stretch on for years. Her son was turning 37 a year ago. Ours is on the cusp of his 20s. When I think about decades more of this trial, my heart wants to give up in defeat. But The Homespun Wife's message is one of encouragement:

"You are never abandoned."

 "God is your only hope."

In the scripture writing video, Sherry mentioned her husband's sermon series, challenging his listeners to analyze what things in the world keep them from their calling from God. I immediately thought of my son's addiction and how it has kept me from God's calling on my life to write. I mentally asserted, "I will not let my son's addiction keep me from God's calling on my life to write!" Another sermon asked listeners to list "Lord, I give this brokenness to you: (my son's addiction)." Another one encouraged listeners to write, "I want to please God through: (my prayer life)."

Next, I followed Sherry's You Tube page to discover a new book she has just published called We Have This Hope. Since she already has a huge following on her You Tube channel and Facebook, she will probably do well in getting her book out to the masses. I may purchase it. Mostly, I'm glad I stumbled upon her You Tube channel because her words ministered to my aching heart and reminded me that God has called me for a purpose and I cannot let the trials of this world stand in the way of that calling. I will continue to pray for my wayward son (and others on this painful journey). I have resumed daily scripture writing. You may wish to watch her video about a new scripture writing Facebook group and join that group (although I just learned yesterday that the group is temporarily not taking new members due to the huge response, but I imagine it will open again at some point). If you follow any of these links to The Homespun Wife, I pray her words encourage your souls, too!

"I will be with you as I was with Moses;

I will not fail you or abandon you.

Be strong and courageous! (NLT)

Monday, August 12, 2024

Book Review: How to Read a Book

I remember enjoying The One-in-a-Million Boy by Monica Wood. So when I saw another title, How to Read a Book, on the library acquisitions list, I put my name on the hold list. Three days before it was due, I finally dove in and devoured it in 2 days. Although it is not a clean title (some sexual activity described), the story caught me up, and I valued the writing.

How to Read a Book tells the story of the intersection of 3 people who meet at a bookstore. Their lives have already intersected, but the bookstore serves as a conduit for redemption and forgiveness. Violet is a 22-year-old recently released from prison after killing a teacher in a drunk driving accident. Harriet, a retired schoolteacher, runs the prison book club. Frank is the husband of the woman Violet killed. 

Several powerful themes spin in the pages. One is the idea that we are all human and the playing field is level, no matter what our actions have been. I loved this line, "People set their husbands afire, they nurse their dying mothers, they rob demented old men, they sing songs that bring listeners to tears, they kill a woman while drunk on love and 86-proof. The line between this and that, you and her, us and them, the line is thin." The book also delves into second chances. Violet deserves a second chance, despite her manslaughter conviction. So do Harriet and Frank.

Finally, the book highlights how stories function and how they change us. With stirring, poetic passages about the "meanwhile," within a story, the author stirs the reader to contemplate how to read a book and how to read a life. "Even the least eventful life holds an avalanche of stories.... The one I chose - the one that now composes this epitaph - isn't a story at all. It's what Harriet would call the meanwhile, the important thing that was happening while the rest of the story moved along.... I took a life. I lived and died. Meanwhile, I was loved." Beautiful! The writing and lessons within these pages captivated and comforted me.

📒 Content caution: sex

Thursday, August 8, 2024

Book Review: What a Wave Must Be

I don't recall what in the teaser lured me in to What a Wave Must Be by Angela Hunt. The title comes from an Emily Dickinson line. "I never saw a moor, I never saw the sea; Yet know I how the heather looks, and what a wave must be." Perhaps it was the first line of the book blurb: "a powerful story of a family's journey toward healing and hope after an unimaginable loss." I receive book recommendations from Hoopla based on my previous experiences. Thus, I think they listed this among Christian audio selection suggestions.

This was the exact sort of difficult I have been shying away from. I'm not the target audience at this time. Indeed, I wanted to give up several times, but felt I couldn't waste the invested time. Readers should know from the start that this book discusses the theological, emotional, and social implications of suicide. That, in itself, is hard, but as the numbers rose, I felt like a test dummy assaulted time after time in crashing vehicles. I know it is important to grapple with difficult subjects. Moreover, it can't be fun to take that on as a task. I just wish I had not gone there.

At least the author's note at the end helped somewhat. She explained her purpose. She wanted to alert people to the reality of clusters of suicides, especially among young people. I'm sure her goal was to provide that "healing and hope" mentioned in the book blurb. I just wasn't at a place to hear the communications of hope and healing well. If suicide has touched you (my husband's younger brother took his life) this book can go one of two ways for you. It can either help you process this difficult discussion or it can trigger emotional overwhelm. You might feel reassured. You might feel drawn down into the depths (what happened to the daughter). Assess yourself prior to opening the cover. And now, I'm off to cleanse my palate with another light-hearted rom-com. 😀 

📒 Content Caution: Difficult subject, possibly triggering for some

Monday, August 5, 2024

Book Review: Cold Light of Day

The person seated next to me at the Sara Brunsvold author talk mentioned a flyer on the back table for a Christian book club. I've never taken part in a Christian book club. While I don't attend the church that held the author talk, I relished the idea of reading Christian books (as so many books these days veer into territory I just don't wish to explore). So, I contacted the number on the flyer and attended my first meeting. They were discussing two books because they had devoted the previous meeting to making centerpieces for the tables at the author talk. I knew I'd never complete 2 books, so I picked the one that sounded interesting to me, Cold Light of Day, by Elizabeth Goddard. It is the first book in the Missing in Alaska series. (The other was a fantasy re-telling of the Biblical story of Joseph.)

I've never read a Goddard book before. Turns out she's a prolific award-winning writer and has 60 books to her credit. Sometimes that's a good thing. Sometimes it leads to formula-following. I'm guessing, not having read any before, that this one followed her standard structure. Publishers love to stick with authors they know can lure in masses of readers. Christian publishers seem driven by profit just as much as secular publishers.

Cold Light of Day takes place in Alaska - thus the "cold." Not sure what the "light of day" in the title indicated, although the whole book was driving to truths coming into the light of day. So maybe that was the intent of the title. Because this is an action/thriller novel, the story begins with a helicopter happening upon a rescue scene of a woman drowning in a frigid Alaskan lake. The man swimming to help is a mysterious new resident in the town of Shadow Gap, Grier Brenner.

Much of the story focuses on the tension of attraction between Grier and the police chief, Autumn Long. Autumn wonders why Grier moved to their isolated Alaskan town and why his skills have prepared him so well for helping her battle a new string of crimes. It is true the tension (both in action and romance) keeps the reader turning pages. Goddard certainly knows how to up the ante. The writing is smooth and enticing.

I guess I struggled with the whole genre mash-up. It is billed as a "Contemporary Christian Romantic Suspense Thriller Set in Alaska." I'm good for a contemporary book and one set in Alaska (loved reading about Alaska in Kristin Hannah's The Great Alone). What felt uncomfortable was the insertion of Christian sentiments into the thriller story line. I've complained before about Christian fiction, because so often authors seek to insert a Christian message and that insertion feels intrusive. For me, this was the case in this novel. Tensions are rising and the character immediately stops and contemplates some Christian tenet or idea. It's not that I quibble with difficulties driving us to God, it is just that the references to scripture passages felt unnatural in the midst of life-threatening scenarios. It was like saying, "We interrupt this dramatic scene to share with you a Biblical principle."

In the end, I decided not to join the book club. They focus on Christy award winners and nominees. Doing so ensures well-written and popular books, but my book selection is more broad. Plus, in learning the upcoming titles, many were ones I had no interest in reading (just not into Amish speculative or even Biblical historical fiction and I feared another two might prove difficult as they focused on dementia and hospice). They were very kind and inviting. However, I fear I overshared in my introduction, telling them more than they wanted to know. I may reach out again at the end of the year to learn their titles for 2025. I am certain I would be welcome in the group. Plus, knowing Christian fiction is safe from the equally intrusive agendas in most secular fiction always puts my mind at ease.

Thursday, August 1, 2024

Book Review: The Divine Proverb of Streusel

With Sara Brunsvold's author talk looming, I had only a few days to tackle her second novel, The Divine Proverb of Streusel. Not a problem! I sped through. I enjoyed this one even more than her first novel. Perhaps it was the personal connections I felt. 

I love to say, "I was born in the state of misery." It gives me a good chuckle and others an eye roll. This book takes place in Missouri and the main character explores her German heritage. My maternal grandmother came from Germany to the United States as a child. She lived and raised my mother in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. 

Much like the character in the book, I didn't have an extensive relationship with my grandmother. We saw her once or twice a year. Those visits were brief. I don't remember my grandmother speaking German, although my mother dabbled in it a bit. She'd say things like "Ach, du lieber ganzen" (oh, you lovely goose!) or she'd sing "Mein hut er hat drei ecken" (My hat, it has 3 corners). Here's a 20 second video of the song. I spoke of this in my book review for another intergenerational German tale, Send for Me.

I don't remember my grandmother's cooking. But I do remember asking my mother for her family recipe for banana pancakes. She explained that when she got married, her mother gave her a file box full of recipes (did she cook side-by-side with my mother to teach her the steps? I don't know). Grandma included 5 typewritten sheets listing the recipes in alphabetical order with the code numbers that appeared in the top right corner of each 3x5 card. The banana pancake recipe card was A12. 

My mother warned that the batter is thin, which is what makes them light and fluffy. Horrible cook that I am, I failed at it miserably. Perhaps, like the character in Brunsvold's book, I struggled because it was a recipe without specific steps or explanations. I wrote to my mom because the recipe was confusing, calling for two separate installments of milk:

"1 egg, 1/2 C milk, 1-1/4 C flour, 1 C milk, dash salt, 3-4 bananas, Is that correct? Do you mix the first three ingredients and then seriously add even more milk? I'm guessing this would be like frying up something with the consistency of orange juice! Let me know if there's another secret ingredient I failed to transcribe."

My mom contacted her sister and my Uncle Dave wrote to explain the steps:

"The recipe is correct. To clarify, the egg and 1/2 cup milk should be mixed together before the flour is added. Then add the next cup of milk. After the bananas are added the mix will be very THIN. Make sure the lard and butter are very hot and be careful not to splatter the oil on your hands. I am going to try and scan the “original” recipe from your mother’s cook book. Dave"

I wrote back to my mother to explain my dilemma. This will give a bird's-eye view of my ineptitude in the kitchen: 

"Well, I tried the banana pancake recipe from your files, and I must be doing something wrong. Here's exactly what happened. I mixed the batter as suggested, mixing first the egg and smaller amount of milk together, then adding the flour, then the larger amount of milk and mixing again before adding the 3 large mashed bananas. The batter seemed thinner than my regular pancake batter, but I figured so far, so good. I have a small cast iron griddle and I thought that might produce a better pancake, so I tried that first. The pancake turned out somewhat close to what yours tasted like, but the middle wasn't cooked enough (please God, don't let me get salmonella from undercooked banana pancakes). Besides the undercooked middle, it didn't want to come off the cast iron pan in the middle. I set the pan on the counter to scoop off the pancake and when I picked up the griddle, it left behind a murky stain which turned out to be resistant to wiping with a dish rag - groan. I decided I'd better stop using it, not knowing what kind of damage I might be doing to my burners, counters, etc. So, I heated my normal small frying pan. The next one seemed to cook on the outside edges but never produce the air bubbles normally associated with a pancake ready to turn. Thus, I burned the next two, trying to get the middles done enough. Finally, I thought perhaps I should turn the stove down. This provided a slower, more even process. Although I am no longer burning them, they still don't appear to look like yours and certainly don't taste as good as yours. I don't know. Then, I looked up German banana pancakes on the internet and they are showing something otherwise known as a Dutch baby, but it is made in the oven. I don't think yours were made in the oven, were they? Well, my best effort still falls short of the mark. Oh well. I tried anyway."

My mom tried to clarify her experience with the recipe:

"I have never mashed the bananas and then added them to the mix. I have only sliced the bananas directly into the mix. Don't know if that will make a difference for you. Let me know."

I never attempted to duplicate my mother's banana pancakes again. Thus, I related to Nikki Werner's attempts at the family recipes. I enjoyed all the recipes in Brunsvold's book, but doubt I will try more than a few (after reading the above, you might understand my hesitancy). I intend to try the recipes for Hoppel Poppel (Egg Hash, p 75), Frikadellen (German hamburgers, p 108), Kohl aus Eddner (Scalloped Cabbage, p. 173), Kartoffelpuffer (Potato Pancakes) with Apfelmus (Applesauce, p 196), and Kartoffelgratin (Scalloped Potatoes, p 243).  

I noted a line from Grandma Lena's notebook of recipes: "Sometimes the hardest thing in the world to do is to keep trying to do something for which natural talents are lacking." Ha! Too true!

Enough about why this read resonated with me! So, back to the book. Nikki Werner is disillusioned with life and love after her parents' divorce and her dad's remarriage. With her boyfriend leaning in hard, she flees her home in Kansas City and heads to her Uncle Wes' farmstead, the home where her dad was raised. Eddner, a town her father left behind early in life, is near Hannibal (a town I lived in for a spell). Nikki finds her grandmother's German books and a notebook full of German recipes. As she helps her uncle restore the family home, she attempts the recipes and shares them with the Lutheran community there. Amid discovering her German heritage, Nikki grapples with reconciliation with both her boyfriend and her father.

My mother's mind, even before her death, was no longer accessible, but I have loads of questions I wish I had asked. Did her mother experience the effects of the world wars? Did they, like other German U.S. citizens, try to distance themselves from their heritage? Did they change to more Anglicized names and drop the use of German language and recipes? What a shame that, because of a nation's misguided actions, a whole worldview lost its freedom to exist and be celebrated! 

This book is a treasure! How comforting to delve into a heritage I share and a faith I espouse! I loved the emphasis on "doing the next thing." I have heard Elizabeth Elliot share from something similar to the poem by Minnie Paull listed in the addendum to this book (although the internet attributes this to an old poem by Eleanor Amerman Sutphen in 1897). Would that I might implement that wisdom in my own life. When I do not know what to do, I can "do the next thing!" 

I wish I had purchased a copy and requested the author's signature on the night of the author talk. My copy came from a nearby library. I wanted to finish her debut novel (The Extraordinary Deaths of Mrs. Kip) first, so I didn't complete The Divine Proverb of Streusel until late on Sunday night. Once I finished, I knew I wanted to own it (not only for the story but also for the recipes and the beautiful sentiments expressed prior to each recipe). Sadly, no copies were available in stores nearby on Monday, prior to the author talk. I'm also kicking myself because the signing line was long, and not having a book to sign, I simply left without snagging a chance to meet the author. Who knows, perhaps she had copies to sell. I appreciated her talk and admire her firm foundation of faith. Moreover, I share her intense desire that writing be a form of worship, a gift given back to the Lord for His purposes and to reach whomever He desires. May it be so in my writing, as well!