Win the Day: 7 Daily Habits to Help You Stress Less & Accomplish More by Mark Batterson - With cleverly titled habits like Flip the Script, Kiss the Wave, and Seed the Clouds, Batterson encourages readers to accomplish dreams by redeeming one day at a time. 256 pages, 👍👍👍👍👍
Thursday, September 30, 2021
2021 - Third Quarterly Review
Win the Day: 7 Daily Habits to Help You Stress Less & Accomplish More by Mark Batterson - With cleverly titled habits like Flip the Script, Kiss the Wave, and Seed the Clouds, Batterson encourages readers to accomplish dreams by redeeming one day at a time. 256 pages, 👍👍👍👍👍
Monday, September 27, 2021
Book Review: Life's too Short
I feel guilty even admitting I consumed this book. It goes against my moral compass and my desire for literature without foul language. However, it was a worthwhile investment of my reading hours. True, I could not listen when my sons were nearby, and my husband raised an eyebrow one morning when he overheard bits while I was washing dishes. Plus, it comes from a worldview I cannot embrace. So many individuals in this day respond to attraction by jumping into physical intimacy long before establishing a relationship or commitment to one another. In my opinion, this leads to a host of difficulties. God set out a plan for this and His way offers the best path to fulfillment, safety, and blessing. Of course, I cannot expect those who reject God to embrace His wisdom. For them, His restrictions seem disagreeable rather than loving. He is the tyrant bent on silencing their fun.
This book's premise is enticing. Vanessa Price is a YouTube superstar. Millions follow her travels around the world as she raises money for ALS. She determines to suck the marrow from life while she can because the women in her family never make it to 30. But now, life is a bit off the rails because her half sister thrust custody of her infant daughter into Vanessa's lap. Help comes from an unexpected quarter. Enter the drop-dead gorgeous lawyer next door, annoyed with the incessant wail on the other side of his wall. Can Vanessa keep her promise to shun all relationships? After all, who wants to date a woman on death's door?
Apart from the cursing, the writing is such that you forget there is a magician behind the curtain bringing things to life. The book holds great wisdom about the importance of valuing each given day of life. Plus, it was absolutely hilarious! Laugh out loud funny. If only I had written down some of the great lines. I loved the bit about the elderly Chihuahua hanging out with his inner demon for company (reminiscent of my sister's possessed Chihuahua they affectionately called "Satan"). I was thoroughly absorbed in the story.
If I'd read the physical book instead of audio, I could have skipped the salacious passages. Alas, I had to endure them. Again, wouldn't it be great if some publisher recognized and catered to those of us who desire clean reads? I'd enjoy creating clean versions of books. It wouldn't be fan fiction, because the only things I would change would be foul language and blatant immorality. Of course, I'd still struggle with the contrary worldview, wouldn't I? Oh well, it sounded like a plan, anyway.
Thursday, September 23, 2021
Book Review: The Miracle at Speedy Motors
Monday, September 20, 2021
Book Review: The Hummingbird's Gift
My hummingbird feeder hangs just outside the window where I work at my computer every morning. I so enjoy watching the birds swoop in and sometimes fight over the nectar. I will say my hummingbirds are more radiant than the illustrations in this book because some are ruby-throated. Still, I fully enjoyed learning more about this miniscule bird. They are so fragile and abandoned babies present particular challenges. The story of ridding the babies of mites ripped out my heart. This treatment very well could have killed the birds. I marveled at the dedication required of hummingbird rehabilitators. The resilience of these birds inspired me. I closed the book wanting to learn more about these intriguing creatures and determined to seek the further resources, including Brenda Sherburn's art website, www.saveworlddraw.org.
Thursday, September 16, 2021
Book Review: What Happened to You?
I loved the conversational style of What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing. Authors Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce D. Perry talk back and forth about these issues with both first-hand knowledge and life-long research. Case studies flesh out their findings. This is a must-read for educators and therapists. It is so important for people to be aware of the impact trauma has on individuals and how it can shape behavioral and emotional responses to life's challenges. Trauma-informed treatment is essential for individuals who have experienced trauma in the early years of life. Healing is only possible when you ask that question: "What happened to you?" The authors attempt to shift the frequent response of "What's wrong with you?" and "Why are you behaving that way?" to the gentler and more important question.
So many of the stories were touching and tragic. Receiving love is essential for giving love. Chaos creates more than an uncomfortable environment. It makes it difficult for children to learn necessary life lessons to respond adequately to challenges in their lives. As I listened, I wondered about my own abilities, and my prodigal son's abilities, to self-regulate. I came away with so much to contemplate and process. As Oprah expressed, "Until you heal the wounds of your past, you will continue to bleed." We all have wounds from our pasts, trauma or not, and everyone has a story to tell that has shaped and influenced their life. If handled appropriately, our stories reap benefits alongside the challenges. Oprah would be the first to say she wouldn't be who she is without what happened to her.
Both authors offer excellent narrative abilities. Oprah's voice is especially easy to listen to and full of poignant expression. As I completed the book, sitting in my car waiting for Sean to come out from his football practice, I teared up several times. First, at the story of her awkward acting session when asked to "tuck a child in," and her realization that she had no such experience to draw upon. What a tragic loss! My heart ached for her. Second, the scene at her mother's deathbed. I listened to that portion just hours after receiving news of my mother-in-law's death. Sean was due to come out bursting with news about his school day and his practice. After waiting for him to share, I painted a picture of her last day. I'm sure Oprah's story and voice will forever be tied to the memory of that day.
Monday, September 13, 2021
Book Review: Facing the Mountain
Daniel James Brown is an outstanding historian and storyteller. After enjoying several of his books, I will happily read anything he writes. I put a hold on his newest book, Facing the Mountain: A True Story of Japanese American Heroes in World War II. It is a hefty book and no small feat, but Brown, true to form, makes the pages whiz past. Every sentence seems crafted with great skill and little effort.
Brown tells the dueling stories of Japanese Americans on the home front and the front lines. Entire families of Americans, simply because of their Japanese descent, were ripped from their homes and shipped to internment camps. Meanwhile, other Americans cheered and jeered. Yet, when called to support the U.S. military, these men stepped forward to defend their country. At one point, Brown observes, "The army had called for fifteen hundred Nisei volunteers from Hawai'i. Nearly ten thousand had turned out."
The parts of the book that most appealed to me were the bits of human interest, rather than the battle scenes. It was interesting to hear about the division in the Japanese ranks because the soldiers came from two different backgrounds. The men from the mainland, "kotonks," somber after watching the internment process, knew they had nothing to return to. The men from Hawaii, "buddhaheads," were boisterous. They cavorted and played ukuleles. Then, a wise chaplain took the Hawaiian soldiers to see the internment camps, and the divide mended. They became one bonded fighting family.
Their efforts on behalf of America deserve commendation and recognition. For example, with odds stacked against them, the Japanese American soldiers stormed a hill and rescued some stranded Texans, known as "The Lost Battalion." These Japanese American soldiers incurred 790 casualties in rescuing 200 men. They lost almost 4 men for every man saved. Such bravery! A tragic loss!
It was a privilege to enter the world of these American families. Thanks to Brown's writing abilities, I felt their despair and embraced their camaraderie. I digested another aspect of the war, seldom covered. Now, if people would read this book and go forth to fight against prejudicial injustice.
Thursday, September 9, 2021
Book Review: Smoke
The author (no doubt attempting to increase stakes and build suspense) creates quite the chasm between the rich and the poor. In his microcosm, the aristocracy does not smoke (albeit through illegal intervention). They appear virtuous, while the riff-raff exude smoke and soot, because sin obviously overwhelms them. Two wealthy boarding school boys set out, with a girl they both desire, to discover the truth behind smoke. The back cover copy offers endless drama:
"A desperate chase. Revolutionaries and secret police. Religious fanatics and coldhearted scientists. Murder. A London filled with danger and wonder... Unexpected villains and unexpected heroes. Cool reason versus passion. Rich versus poor. Right versus wrong, though which is which isn't clear. This is the world of Smoke, a narrative tour de force, a tale of Dickensian intricacy and ferocious imaginative power, richly atmospheric and intensely suspenseful."
From the outset, this idea allured. Unfortunately, although intriguing, I cannot endorse this author's worldview. I believe we are all sinners in need of a Savior. We all fall short of the glory of God. (Romans 3:23) This author doesn't even allow God into the picture. What's worse, he ridicules righteousness (or any attempt to choose holiness over sin) and presents it as the problem. Discipline, or virtuous living, is a trap. Characters who seek the unsullied or aspire to holiness end up going mad. At one point, the book actually states, "Our problem is not smoke, but what we think it means."
This author presents a whole novel to young people in defense of sin. Right living stunts the senses, deprives the individual. No, in his mind, one should embrace sin. This is just what we need for our young people today: another license for sin and vice. Indeed, I'm done with modern YA literature. Thick with agenda. Denying the existence or necessity of God. Presenting worlds where right is wrong and wrong is right, where good is bad and bad is good. Isaiah 5:20 says, "Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter." What a timely Scripture verse! I'm all for a Dickensian tale. Sadly, this one doesn't stand up to (or for) the light.
Monday, September 6, 2021
Book Review: Another Gospel? - Highly Recommend
I will need to purchase this book. At my library, held books come with an identification sticker to aid in curbside pickup. But I tore small pieces from three such stickers to mark passages to revisit or recall when I review the book. This book had numerous small tabs of paper jutting from the sides.
In some places, I recognized the theories/arguments others have presented that I have rejected. Friends and family, once considered true believers, have morphed into people who reject biblical authority and want to rewrite the Scriptures. In other places, I noticed seeds of error that slipped past my defenses. For example, how did I not realize that Richard Rohr, of the Enneagram fame, is a progressive? I still agree that we respond according to our personality types. Yet I cannot agree with his quotations cited in this book. Plus, years ago, I wrote a favorable review for The Shack, not recognizing some egregious errors in that author's presentation of God, sin, and atonement. This is a clear indication that we read and interact with a book from that specific point in our journey and might respond differently when further along. I'm glad God continues to open my eyes to His truth as I seek that in the supreme source, His Word.
Can progressive Christianity even be called Christianity? Childers describes her experience with a church sponsored class intended to push the progressive deconstruction of Christianity. These individuals struggle with the beliefs laid out in the Bible. They question everything and consider themselves above conservative or historical Christians, painting us as babies who blindly accept everything spoon-fed while they hold their doubt and skepticism as superior. (Hmm. Amazing how questions, doubt, and skepticism seem laudable in some scenarios, yet in other aspects of society, they are disallowed, censored, and criticized vehemently!) Their spiritual doubt often causes them to chuck everything and reframe their beliefs according to their own whims. This author points out that progressives are tolerant of everything but conservatives and inclusive of everyone but those who disagree with their interpretation of Scripture. How true!
As Childers outlines so well: 1) They deny the authority and inspiration of the Bible. 2) They emphasize God's love and repudiate His wrath. 3) They contest the reality of hell and eternal punishment. 4) They make a mockery of the cross, viewing it as divine child abuse instead of atonement for sin. 5) They tout ideas of universal salvation. (I can still hear my husband's grandmother saying, "Oh, there are many ways to God." Yet, Scripture says Christ is the only way.)
I've long struggled with supposed Christians who want to present Christianity simply as "God is love. God loves you just the way you are. God has no desire to change you or make you more like Him. His primary concern is for your happiness and fulfillment." These individuals pick what parts of the Bible they are comfortable with and denounce whole sections on the argument that Paul was just a man responding to the cultural dictates of his time.
The sad thing is that a time is coming, not far off, when God's patience will come to an end. He will judge man. Will you be a tare, ever insisting you are actually wheat? His judgment will reveal the true believers. God will accept those who rely on his substitutionary atonement on the Cross, who recognize their sin and need of a Savior, who accept His ways and means. He will separate them from those who reject Christ's act and put forth their own path to salvation.
I stand with this author:
"We can choose to follow the whims of a godless culture or we can choose to follow Jesus. I choose Jesus."
"We don't get to completely redefine who God is and how he works in the world and call it Christian. We don't get to make the rules and do what is right in our own eyes and yet claim to be followers of Jesus."
"A robust theology of the Cross is what will withstand the storms, sufferings, persecutions, and hardships that Jesus promised would confront those who are his true followers."
That day is coming. Persecution is nigh. I plan to cling to the Cross and my Christ, not a figment made in my own image, to my own dictates, but according to the inerrant and wholly reliable Word of God. I'm so thankful to this author for articulating what I believe so firmly to be true. There is a way, a narrow way, and some who believe they are walking in it, while tearing down the walls they find too restrictive, will get the result of their imitation Christianity, a life eternally separated from God and all that is holy.
Thursday, September 2, 2021
Book/Movie Review: News of the World
Captain Kidd has already raised his daughters. His wife is dead and his printing business closed down. Now, he makes his way across Texas doing newspaper and periodical readings for townsfolk who are hungry for word from the rest of the world. I loved the mention of Household Words, the periodical in which Charles Dickens published his serialized novels. Too fun. Now, Captain Kidd takes on a new task. He agrees to return a ten-year-old girl to her people. The Kiowa tribe held the girl captive after they killed her parents and sister. Now that the white people bought her back, he agrees to return her to her aunt and uncle. The journey is harrowing and the two, thrown together in this circumstance, open up and bond. It is a beautiful tale.
In this case, the book and movie are both good. The book gives more information and a rounder tale, but the movie provides such a tender, uplifting message. The casting was perfect. My husband reluctantly watched with me because he is not a big fan of Tom Hanks, but Hanks did a superb job playing this role. The young girl chosen to play Johannah Leonberger was also outstanding. I loved the harrowing, classic Western shoot-out. The Texas dust storm led to a heart-wrenching moment that almost brought tears to my eyes. If you are looking for a decent movie to watch, I recommend News of the World. It emphasizes the power of story, the redemption available when we invest in each other's lives, and the blessing of unexpected opportunity sometimes cloaked as a burden.